In this article, I’m going to discuss a topic that needs more attention. It has to do with how you think about the timeframe it will take to recover from opioid dependence.
Over six years ago, I finally got clean off opiates after years of my severe addiction and numerous failed attempts at quitting.
Then I made it my Life’s Purpose & Mission to help others detox from opioids and feel better fast.
I got my foot in the door by becoming a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor at a popular Opiate Treatment Program 15 minutes away from my home.
At this Medication-Assisted Treatment Program, the patients were either placed on methadone, Suboxone, or Subutex to help them avoid opiate withdrawal symptoms and cravings.
“Sprinting” To Get Clean
At the methadone clinic, I met with over 500 patients, either to do their intake and/or provide individual or group counseling. A common theme was patients wanting to end their addiction right away after signing up.
Many people wanted to begin a fast taper off their medication within a few days of enrolling. And a lot of times these were individuals that had long-term, severe opioid dependence.
I know the feeling of wanting to get clean FAST.
It’s what I wanted in my own addiction as well.
So I really empathize with people wanting to end it quickly. Sometimes it’s possible to have a miraculous recovery on the first try.
More commonly, it takes 2-7 attempts at quitting before a person gets off opioid drugs long-term.
Why?
Opioid dependence wreaks havoc on your brain chemistry, so people typically feel pretty bad for weeks to months or longer after detoxing.
Left untreated, the brain can take seemingly forever to start producing adequate amounts of dopamine, endorphins, and other important neurotransmitters after a person successfully transitions 0ff opioids.
The result?
Lingering symptoms such as:
Most opioid-dependent individuals think they just need to get through the acute withdrawal and are unaware of a phenomenon known as Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (PAWS).
PAWS is the main reason most people relapse before they get 90 days clean.
It can be really challenging to stay off opioids when you’re experiencing severe fatigue and anhedonia.
One time I got off opiates for almost five months.
But I still didn’t have energy or motivation, and since I was a single dad that worked full-time as a cook at a busy restaurant in upstate New York…
I needed ENERGY, so I decided to start using again, which instantly gave me that energy, happiness, and relief of anxiety that I was desperately wanting to experience.
In my opinion, post-acute symptoms are why it’s difficult for people to “sprint to recovery.” They don’t understand that even if they have a relatively easy time going through the acute withdrawal, it almost always takes a couple of weeks or longer to get their energy back.
And since most of us either work, take care of kids, or both, we can become extremely prone to feeling incapable of having so many important responsibilities and keeping them when we’re so exhausted.
The “Marathon Metaphor”
Now that I’ve covered the topic of “sprinting to recovery,” let’s discuss the opposite end of the spectrum. When I say “marathon,” I mean viewing opiate recovery as a process that could take six weeks, six months, or even longer.
In my online course Ultimate Opiate Detox 2.0, I provide the simple strategies you can use to have a relatively painless withdrawal.
I also provide detailed yet simple information that can allow you to significantly reduce and shorten the duration of post-acute symptoms.
However, after going through the acute and the post-acute phases, there is still one more phase to consider and plan for.
That phase is called “Relapse Prevention.”
I describe Relapse Prevention as “learning and/or developing adaptive coping tools for living a fulfilled life without the use of opioids.”
Common relapse prevention tools include:
- Individual Counseling
- Group Counseling
- Coaching
- Exercise
- Spirituality
- Nutrition
- Journaling
- Supplementation
- Yoga
- Meditation
Again, I’ve seen some people quit opioid drugs quickly and on their first attempt, without major effort and time. Much more commonly, opiate addiction recovery is a marathon.
I’ve broken the process down to four phases, which are:
- Phase 1 – Strategic Learning & Planning
- Phase 2 – Acute Detox
- Phase 3 – Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome
- Phase 4 – Relapse Prevention
As you can see, opiate recovery is a linear path with multiple stages and hurdles. And for most of us (myself included), it very often takes several attempts to get through these stages before we finally create long-term recovery and psychological well-being.
And during this process, a person could ruin their lives…or even die.
It’s just too sad for me to think about all of the people that are suffering from opiate addiction.
And that’s why I created this website over four years ago, which now has over 300 free articles and two free online courses that contain valuable strategies for helping anyone conquer their opioid dependence for good.
Final Thoughts
After learning about the difference between the “sprint” and “marathon” methods of recovery, you can now think about the benefits of approaching opiate recovery with more of a marathon mindset.
You might fail the first, second, or even third attempt or more.
Don’t give up.
Learn from your mistakes and keep trying until you achieve your goal of being clean from the use of opioid drugs.
Additionally, develop and nurture self-compassion while you’re going on this journey.
It’s so important to not beat yourself up or think negatively of yourself.
Instead, develop these skills while you’re beating opioid dependence:
- Self-Love
- Self-Compassion
- Self-Discipline
- Courage
- Persistence (or better yet…RELENTLESSNESS)
I promise these skills will pay off for you big time in the long run if you make a conscious effort to enhance and maintain them consistently over time.
If you have any comments or questions about sprinting or marathoning to your recovery, please post them in the comment box below. Please take good care of yourself, and I wish you the best of luck!!!
B.S.
While I know there are actual spine injuries, I was in related industry for 15 yrs.. spinal pain is often simply stress.. we opiod users .. let’s be accurate- us humans.. often know not another way to de-stress but chemically.. drugs, alcohol.. I am re-learning & re-training my body/mind. We’ve ALL heard it.. exercise. đ± I know. It’s true. Yoga, breathing, meditation, (very) hot Epsom salt baths, body care: massage, eastern therapies.. then take your pick.. I too suffered back pain for years..as did my husband.. we convinced ourselves that’s why we “needed” the methadone.. & heroin. 2 expensive Ibogaine trips.. relapsed immediately both times (tho it is effective & recommended!!).. you come back clean with little to no PAWS.. But the jury is still out on brain re-wiring.. during my rollercoaster days.. I do feel generally more positive and happy now, despite detoxing/PAWS.:
dealing with 3rd recent relapse now.. weaning off & following Finchđđ… Dang.. think my back and neck is starting to ache now(!!).. I have been pretty successful alleviating symptoms using the physical/mental exercises above.. sometimes it’s hard we’ve been wired for YEARS.. that’s when the rest of Mr. Finch’s website/ emails /program of boundless info comes into play.. good luck y’all! Stay positive! Keep 1 motivational goal in mind. Some moments- that’s literally all you have to go on!
Matt Finch
I love reading your comments. You’re very thoughtful and have done a lot of research, and have a really excellent grasp on the big picture of this. It’s impressive, and I’m glad you’re using the knowledge you’ve gained here and from other resources and rebuilding your body and mind. It’s true, all humans want to avoid discomfort (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual) and move toward comfort. And drugs, alcohol, food, iPhones, and many other things help… but at a price when it becomes habitual. Keep up the great work you’re doing. I’m totally cheering you on from afar! I love your personality and attitude.
Susan
Will this also work on Buprenorphine?
Matt Finch
Yes.
Tom Malinowski
Hi Matt,my name is Tom Malinowski,I’ve been on heavy amounts of pain meds for a little over 20 years but I wasn’t ready to stop,my doctor made that decision for me. I know you say that excursive if very helpful,I’m 67 with a very bad back,is there anything I can substitute for that. I’m almost done with my suboxone mataiance and I’m starting to feel the acute withdrawals.Thank You in advance for any suggestions.
Anonymous
I too suffer from severe back pain. I understand exactly what you are going through. Can you take Insaids? Theyâre hard on the stomach but helpful with back pain. Also stretching exercises help a lot. If we donât move, it tends to get worse. I have degenerated disk disease, so Iâve been taking shots in my spine. Itâs very helpful, and much better than being stuck on Opiates. I hope this helps.
Sandra McBee
Shots may feel better now but they actually weaken bones and increase osteoarthritis in the back. They also cause many other dangerous maladies. NSAIDS are very dangerous. Most ODs are actually from the ulcers or aspirin poisoning from them. Methadone is wonderful for pain. Perhaps you could switch to that and then when youâre ready, taper safely from it.
Tim Russell
Matt my mane is Tim Russell and I have been on opioids for 15 years, I am now on three 30 mill of oxys a day. I have tried to stop many times but always go back, the acute withdrawal I am ok with itâs the paws that always gets me , can you suggest something for energy so I can work and not be tempted to go backwards
THANKS IN ADVANCE
Matt Finch
Hi Tim,
Here is an article I wrote that will help you get your energy back as fast as possible, while also treating the other PAWS symptoms and cravings. For energy to come back, I would at minimum use Methods #1, 2, and 3. Here is the article: How To Stop Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome From Opiates